2011 taught me many things. If I could sum up the things that I have learnt throughout the entire year, it would be a lesson on relationships.
I made some new friends, lost some, and am not sure if the rest are still my friends.
But the most derailing experience was how I got into a new relationship, and broke up months later.
The aftermath of this entire episode resulted in a lot of collateral damage. People got involved, and while a few innocently got affected, some others intervened and messed things up further.
What’s past is past. I’ll never know the intentions behind the actions of some individuals, and I’ll just leave it at that.
What I keep with me is the knowledge that while it sucks to have someone out there who can tear me down within a moment’s notice, I can actually love a person so much.
I am not going to pretend that this relationship never happened. I am not going to be in denial of those memories we had, because I want to remember that for a while, somebody once loved me.
Here’s to everyone,